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June 03, 2025

Using Psychotherapy to Set Healthy Boundaries

June 03, 2025/ John Skandalis
Using Psychotherapy to Set Healthy Boundaries

Many people struggle with setting and maintaining healthy boundaries, often without fully understanding why.

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Men's Counseling
May 23, 2025

5 Ways to Self-Soothe When You're Upset

May 23, 2025/ John Skandalis
5 Ways to Self-Soothe When You're Upset

When emotions run high, self-soothing techniques can help restore calm, providing comfort and clarity. Whether you're dealing with a stressful situation or just having a rough day, here are five effective ways to self-soothe and regain your balance.

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May 23, 2025/ John Skandalis/ Comment
Men's Counseling
February 12, 2025

How Being Vulnerable Helps Men in Relationships

February 12, 2025/ John Skandalis
How Being Vulnerable Helps Men in Relationships

In a world where men are expected to be stoic and emotionally reserved, vulnerability can feel like a risk. However, it is a strength that fosters deeper connections, builds trust, and enhances emotional intimacy in relationships.

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February 12, 2025/ John Skandalis/ Comment
Men's Counseling
December 26, 2024

How Having a Male Therapist Can Help with Developing Empathy for Yourself and Others

December 26, 2024/ John Skandalis
How Having a Male Therapist Can Help with Developing Empathy for Yourself and Others

Empathy is the cornerstone of healthy relationships and personal well-being, yet developing empathy-for yourself and others-can often feel like an elusive goal.

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December 26, 2024/ John Skandalis/ Comment
Men's Counseling
November 19, 2024

Healing Childhood Trauma: The Role of a Male Therapist

November 19, 2024/ John Skandalis
Healing Childhood Trauma: The Role of a Male Therapist

Childhood trauma can leave deep emotional and psychological scars, influencing how we perceive ourselves, our relationships and the world. It shapes how we respond to threats, real and perceived and shapes our coping mechanisms.

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November 19, 2024/ John Skandalis/ Comment
Men's Counseling
October 30, 2024

How Men Can Better Manage Stress at Work

October 30, 2024/ John Skandalis
How Men Can Better Manage Stress at Work

Managing stress at work can be challenging and it is no secret that men often face unique pressures in the workplace. Balancing high expectations, navigating professional demands and maintaining personal responsibilities can take a toll on mental well-being

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October 30, 2024/ John Skandalis/ Comment
Men's Counseling
October 07, 2024

What Moving on After a Divorce Looks Like for Men

October 07, 2024/ John Skandalis
What Moving on After a Divorce Looks Like for Men

Divorce can be one of the most challenging life experiences for anyone, but for men, the process of moving on can come with its own unique set of emotional, psychological and social hurdles.

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October 07, 2024/ John Skandalis/ Comment
Men's Counseling
September 03, 2024

The Advantages of Men Working on Healthy Boundaries with a Male Therapist

September 03, 2024/ John Skandalis
The Advantages of Men Working on Healthy Boundaries with a Male Therapist

Traditional stereotypes have often discouraged men from seeking help or expressing vulnerability, leading to emotional suppression and other negative consequences. However, as awareness increases, more men are turning to therapy to address their emotional needs.

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September 03, 2024/ John Skandalis/ Comment
Men's Counseling
August 20, 2024

How Counseling Can Help Men Find an Emotionally Healthy Partner

August 20, 2024/ John Skandalis
How Counseling Can Help Men Find an Emotionally Healthy Partner

In the search for a fulfilling, emotionally healthy relationship, men often face unique challenges that are deeply rooted in societal expectations and personal experiences.

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August 20, 2024/ John Skandalis/ Comment
Men's Counseling
August 05, 2024

How Having a Male Therapist Can Help Men Learn to Speak Up for Themselves

August 05, 2024/ John Skandalis
How Having a Male Therapist Can Help Men Learn to Speak Up for Themselves

In the realm of mental health, the importance of finding the right therapist cannot be overstated. For many men, this journey of self-discovery and healing can be particularly challenging due to societal norms and ingrained beliefs about masculinity.

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August 05, 2024/ John Skandalis/ Comment
Men's Counseling
July 16, 2024

How Therapy Can Help You Be a Better Parent

July 16, 2024/ John Skandalis
How Therapy Can Help You Be a Better Parent

Parenting is one of the most rewarding yet often challenging roles we can undertake in life. Every parent desires to provide the best for their children.

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July 16, 2024/ John Skandalis/ Comment
Men's Counseling
February 20, 2024

What Happens in a Counseling for Men Session

February 20, 2024/ John Skandalis
What Happens in a Counseling for Men Session

We are raised to think that we should be able to solve our own problems or that it is a sign of weakness to ask for help. So how does it work to seek out counseling for something going on in your life that you need help with?

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February 20, 2024/ John Skandalis/ Comment
Men's Counseling
February 07, 2024

The Upside of Vulnerability for Men

February 07, 2024/ John Skandalis
The Upside of Vulnerability for Men

Almost all the men I have worked with have struggled with the idea that showing vulnerability is a good thing.

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February 07, 2024/ John Skandalis/ Comment
Men's Counseling
January 18, 2024

I Forgive You From Ted Lasso

January 18, 2024/ John Skandalis
I Forgive You From Ted Lasso

Ted Lasso is a hit show for the right reasons. It is honest, well-acted and tells a great story.

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January 18, 2024/ John Skandalis/ Comment
Men's Counseling
December 23, 2023

What Does Hollywood Get Wrong About Trauma

December 23, 2023/ John Skandalis
What Does Hollywood Get Wrong About Trauma

Hollywood and filmmakers often portray a person suffering from trauma inaccurately. Often, they show trauma as something that is easily put behind the protagonist and forgotten.

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December 23, 2023/ John Skandalis/ Comment
Men's Counseling
December 23, 2023

Physical Activities That Can Help Heal Trauma

December 23, 2023/ John Skandalis
Physical Activities That Can Help Heal Trauma

n excellent book on the topic is Bessel Van Der Kolk’s book, The Body Keeps the Score. In it he explores how the body needs to feel safe so that the person feels safe.

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December 23, 2023/ John Skandalis/ Comment
Men's Counseling
May 17, 2023

Healthy Masculinity in Community

May 17, 2023/ John Skandalis
Healthy Masculinity in Community

A men’s group is a safe place where there is no judgement, discrimination, harassment or fear of emotional or physical harm. The participants get to work on anything they choose including their relationships at home and at work

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May 17, 2023/ John Skandalis/ Comment
Men's Counseling
November 22, 2022

Four Ways to be a Better Husband

November 22, 2022/ John Skandalis
Four Ways to be a Better Husband

There are many challenges to being the best husband you can be to your spouse. For one thing, most men are not raised to be focused on the important relationships in their lives.

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November 22, 2022/ John Skandalis/ Comment
Men's Counseling
September 19, 2022

Rites of Continuity

September 19, 2022/ John Skandalis
Rites of Continuity

As we continue the Hero’s Journey and completing the cycle of John Mosher’s Healing Circle model we come to the fourth and final ritual. The Rite of Continuity.

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September 19, 2022/ John Skandalis/ Comment
Men's Counseling
September 07, 2022

Rites of Incorporation Films

September 07, 2022/ John Skandalis
Rites of Incorporation Films

After having gone through an ordeal leading to a Rite of Transformation where the Hero’s embraces new beliefs, new ideas and wisdom the next rituals are Rites of Incorporation.

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September 07, 2022/ John Skandalis/ Comment
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