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December 09, 2025

What Divorced Men Should Look for in a Romantic Partner

December 09, 2025/ John Skandalis
What Divorced Men Should Look for in a Romantic Partner

Re-entering the dating world after divorce can feel like stepping into an unfamiliar landscape. You’re older, wiser, and you carry real experience—both the emotionally stretching kind and the deeply clarifying kind.

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December 09, 2025/ John Skandalis/ Comment
Men's Counseling
December 09, 2025

Why Are Men So Lonely — and How to Help Them Make Lasting Friendships

December 09, 2025/ John Skandalis
Why Are Men So Lonely — and How to Help Them Make Lasting Friendships

In recent years, the conversation around men’s mental and emotional well-being has become more urgent. One topic stands out for its depth and complexity: men are experiencing record levels of loneliness.

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December 09, 2025/ John Skandalis/ Comment
Men's Counseling
November 11, 2025

How Men Can Overcome Loneliness

November 11, 2025/ John Skandalis
How Men Can Overcome Loneliness

Loneliness has become one of the most silent and widespread challenges facing men today. Beneath the surface of busy schedules, professional ambition, and social media updates, many men quietly carry a deep sense of isolation.

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November 11, 2025/ John Skandalis/ Comment
Men's Counseling
November 11, 2025

Why Men Need Healthy Emotional Connection with Other Men

November 11, 2025/ John Skandalis
Why Men Need Healthy Emotional Connection with Other Men

In a culture that often tells men to “man up,” stay strong, and handle things alone, many men quietly carry emotional burdens without anyone truly seeing them. But something profound happens when men connect emotionally with other men — when they drop the armor and allow themselves to be known.

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November 11, 2025/ John Skandalis/ Comment
Men's Counseling
October 07, 2025

Emotional Awareness for Men

October 07, 2025/ John Skandalis
Emotional Awareness for Men

For many men, emotions can feel like a foreign language—something they sense but can’t easily identify or express. Cultural expectations often teach boys from an early age to suppress vulnerability, equating emotional restraint with strength.

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October 07, 2025/ John Skandalis/ Comment
Men's Counseling
October 07, 2025

Respectful Approaches to Women

October 07, 2025/ John Skandalis
Respectful Approaches to Women

In an age where communication often happens through quick messages and short interactions, how a man approaches a woman can make a lasting impression.

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October 07, 2025/ John Skandalis/ Comment
Men's Counseling
September 03, 2025

How to have a Healthy Relationship with your Partner

September 03, 2025/ John Skandalis
How to have a Healthy Relationship with your Partner

While every couple has its own unique dynamics, there are universal principles that can help create and maintain a strong, loving connection. Here are some key ways to have a healthy relationship with your partner:

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September 03, 2025/ John Skandalis/ Comment
Couples Counseling
September 03, 2025

How can Men Express their Feelings in a Safe and Productive Way

September 03, 2025/ John Skandalis
How can Men Express their Feelings in a Safe and Productive Way

The good news is that men can learn to express their feelings in safe and productive ways. Doing so builds stronger connections, relieves internal pressure, and fosters a more authentic sense of self. Here are some strategies that can help.

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September 03, 2025/ John Skandalis/ Comment
Men's Counseling
August 05, 2025

What Qualities Should a Man Look for in a Counselor to Help Them Grow into a Healthy, Mature Man?

August 05, 2025/ John Skandalis
What Qualities Should a Man Look for in a Counselor to Help Them Grow into a Healthy, Mature Man?

In a world that often tells men to “tough it out” or “handle things on their own,” choosing to work with a counselor is an act of quiet courage.

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August 05, 2025/ John Skandalis/ Comment
Men's Counseling
August 05, 2025

How Male Mental Health Counselors Can Help Young Men Find Purpose in Their Lives

August 05, 2025/ John Skandalis
How Male Mental Health Counselors Can Help Young Men Find Purpose in Their Lives

With societal expectations shifting rapidly, traditional benchmarks of manhood—such as financial success, career status, or physical toughness—often no longer serve as reliable guideposts. As a result, many young men feel lost, disconnected, or unsure of their place in the world.

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August 05, 2025/ John Skandalis/ Comment
Men's Counseling
July 02, 2025

Building Healthy Friendships Between Men and Women: Mutual Support and Respect

July 02, 2025/ John Skandalis
Building Healthy Friendships Between Men and Women: Mutual Support and Respect

Friendship between men and women has long been complicated by outdated cultural narratives, misconceptions, and fear of impropriety. But as our understanding of gender and relationships evolves,

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July 02, 2025/ John Skandalis/ Comment
Men's Counseling
July 02, 2025

Encouraging Men to Take Care of Their Emotional Needs

July 02, 2025/ John Skandalis
Encouraging Men to Take Care of Their Emotional Needs

For generations, men have been taught to equate strength with silence, endurance with emotional suppression, and resilience with stoicism.

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July 02, 2025/ John Skandalis/ Comment
Men's Counseling
June 04, 2025

Using Psychotherapy to Find Your True Passion

June 04, 2025/ John Skandalis
Using Psychotherapy to Find Your True Passion

For many people, the question “What is my true passion?” can feel both inspiring and deeply unsettling. It’s not uncommon to go through life following a path laid out by others—parents, teachers, society—only to reach a point where you begin to wonder whether that path is truly yours.

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June 04, 2025/ John Skandalis/ Comment
Life Transitions Counseli
June 03, 2025

Using Psychotherapy to Set Healthy Boundaries

June 03, 2025/ John Skandalis
Using Psychotherapy to Set Healthy Boundaries

Many people struggle with setting and maintaining healthy boundaries, often without fully understanding why.

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June 03, 2025/ John Skandalis/ Comment
Men's Counseling
May 23, 2025

5 Ways to Self-Soothe When You're Upset

May 23, 2025/ John Skandalis
5 Ways to Self-Soothe When You're Upset

When emotions run high, self-soothing techniques can help restore calm, providing comfort and clarity. Whether you're dealing with a stressful situation or just having a rough day, here are five effective ways to self-soothe and regain your balance.

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May 23, 2025/ John Skandalis/ Comment
Men's Counseling
February 12, 2025

How Being Vulnerable Helps Men in Relationships

February 12, 2025/ John Skandalis
How Being Vulnerable Helps Men in Relationships

In a world where men are expected to be stoic and emotionally reserved, vulnerability can feel like a risk. However, it is a strength that fosters deeper connections, builds trust, and enhances emotional intimacy in relationships.

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February 12, 2025/ John Skandalis/ Comment
Men's Counseling
December 26, 2024

How Having a Male Therapist Can Help with Developing Empathy for Yourself and Others

December 26, 2024/ John Skandalis
How Having a Male Therapist Can Help with Developing Empathy for Yourself and Others

Empathy is the cornerstone of healthy relationships and personal well-being, yet developing empathy-for yourself and others-can often feel like an elusive goal.

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December 26, 2024/ John Skandalis/ Comment
Men's Counseling
November 19, 2024

Healing Childhood Trauma: The Role of a Male Therapist

November 19, 2024/ John Skandalis
Healing Childhood Trauma: The Role of a Male Therapist

Childhood trauma can leave deep emotional and psychological scars, influencing how we perceive ourselves, our relationships and the world. It shapes how we respond to threats, real and perceived and shapes our coping mechanisms.

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November 19, 2024/ John Skandalis/ Comment
Men's Counseling
October 30, 2024

How Men Can Better Manage Stress at Work

October 30, 2024/ John Skandalis
How Men Can Better Manage Stress at Work

Managing stress at work can be challenging and it is no secret that men often face unique pressures in the workplace. Balancing high expectations, navigating professional demands and maintaining personal responsibilities can take a toll on mental well-being

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October 30, 2024/ John Skandalis/ Comment
Men's Counseling
October 07, 2024

What Moving on After a Divorce Looks Like for Men

October 07, 2024/ John Skandalis
What Moving on After a Divorce Looks Like for Men

Divorce can be one of the most challenging life experiences for anyone, but for men, the process of moving on can come with its own unique set of emotional, psychological and social hurdles.

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October 07, 2024/ John Skandalis/ Comment
Men's Counseling
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