Rite of Separation Films
/This blog is a follow-up to the prior one that brought up the idea from John Mosher’s book on The Healing Circle of the four rituals needed to heal from trauma.
Read MoreThis blog is a follow-up to the prior one that brought up the idea from John Mosher’s book on The Healing Circle of the four rituals needed to heal from trauma.
Read MoreIn John Mosher’s Healing Circle model there are four healing rituals that are needed in order to heal trauma from the past and be able to move into wholeness in our lives.
The four rituals, or rites are: Separation, Transformation, Incorporation and Continuity.
Read MoreThe movie Hustle stars Adam Sandler as a talent scout for the Philadelphia 76ers basketball team. It is a story of redemption as he shows us an example of being a generative male archetype. He embodies a part of the self that helps others become their best and enriches their lives.
Read MoreThe Coen brother’s film O Brother Where Art Thou, released in 2000, is in some ways a retelling of the Odyssey by Homer. That book tells the story of the king, Ulysses, who undertakes a ten-year journey to return to his home. He finds his way blocked by sirens, a cyclops and other obstacles.
Read MoreI once read that we are missing the big picture when we witness a contented mother and infant in a warm, loving embrace. Their eyes locked on each other with soft cooing from the baby met by echoing sighs from the mother.
Read MoreThe film Dunkirk, directed by Christopher Nolan was released in 2017 and tells the story of the evacuation of allied troops from the beaches of Dunkirk, France, during the second world war.
Read MoreDavid Richo’s book, How to Be an Adult is a rich handbook for understanding what healthy adult thoughts, behaviors and feelings are.
Read MoreAs we anticipate mask mandates lifting shortly it is a good time to reflect on the last two years. We have, collectively, been through a traumatic experience with long lasting impacts.
Read More“It’s a Wonderful Life” was not well liked or well-regarded when released in 1946. America was seeking lighthearted distraction from the sacrifice and struggle of the recently ended Second World War. It was a dark film with flashes of brightness and hope at the end.
Read MoreSeasonal Affective Disorder or SAD is a commonly occurring disorder (over three million cases in the United States each year) that occurs the farther north or south you are from the equator. It is also called “winter depression.” It can start in younger people and can increase with age.
Read MoreThe Disney animated film Up is a delightful film that takes on an adventure with a crusty old man and his unwelcomed companion. It is also a deeper film addressing loss and the need to find purpose after life has given us a separation we do not welcome.
Read MoreLet me begin by saying that happy couples are not happy all the time. Maybe a better way to say it is to say that some experience more happiness than others and there are reasons why.
Read MoreAs we slowly move back into reopening and employees return to the workplace we are confronted with the traumatic effects of the pandemic. Naturally, we want to reclaim the lives we were living almost a year and a half ago. And yet, things have changed, and we have changed.
Read MoreWe are moving towards a “new normal” with Covid. It seems like a million years ago we freely interacted, mask less, with others. We went to church and sporting events without any concerns for our health. We are not out of the woods yet but there is hope for some normalcy with many people getting vaccinated and death rates dropping.
Read MoreAs anyone who is a pet owner can tell you their animals help them in many ways. They offer unending doses of companionship, unconditional love and a sense of connection to the natural world.
Read MoreThe pioneering psychologist Carl Jung came up with the concept of archetypes. He defined them as “universal, inborn models of people, behaviors, or personalities that play a role in influencing human behavior”.
Read MoreAs I was scanning through videos on YouTube, I came across a live recording of the Beatles performing their classic, Nowhere Man. I had heard the song many times over the decades and enjoyed and loved the song, but I heard it differently this time.
Read MoreWe have an alluring myth of love at first sight in our culture. There is such a thing as an instant attraction to a person when we first meet them, and that initial hormonal surge is an important part in starting relationships. That is not the same as what is needed to sustain and make a relationship thrive
Read MoreMany Americans are struggling right now with getting enough sleep. We are sleep deprived for a variety of reasons: stress, anxiety, too much spent on screens that keeps our brains overstimulated.
Read MoreWe have been given hope in this dark time with the two vaccines now being distributed. However, the delays in distributing the vaccines have created anxiety of its own. How can you manage the anxiety of having to wait?
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